Sefer HaMitzvos

מצות לא תעשה שי״ח–שי״ט · מצות עשה ר״י–רי״א

Day 330 of 339

Introduction to Negative Mitzvot 315-318:

Prohibitions against Cursing

There may be times when we become so upset with a person that we lose our temper. The Torah teaches us to control ourselves and always guard what comes out of our mouths. We are especially cautioned not to curse anyone.

Negative Mitzvah 318

It is forbidden to curse parents

Exodus 21:17 "And one that curses his father or his mother shall surely be put to death"

This Negative Mitzvah prohibits anyone from cursing his or her parents.

Negative Mitzvah 319

It is forbidden to injure parents

Exodus 21:15 "And one that hits his father or his mother shall surely be put to death"

This Negative Mitzvah forbids us from injuring or hitting our parents.

Positive Mitzvah 210

Honoring our Parents

Exodus 20:12 "Honor your father and your mother"

We all love our mothers and fathers.

They do so much for us and provide us with all our needs.

Besides all their care for us, we love them simply because they are our parents!

The Torah commands us to do more than just show them our love.

We are commanded to honor and respect them.

We must do all they ask us, whether it be serving them food, giving them clothing or doing other errands.

Positive Mitzvah 211

Revering our Parents

Leviticus 19:3 "Every man shall revere his mother and father"

We are commanded to revere our parents and regard them with esteem.

Sometimes, we may think that since they love us and we love them, a little talking back or disobedience will be overlooked.

But this is not so.

We can show our reverence by not sitting in our father's chair, by not interrupting our parents when they speak, and by not contradicting their words.